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Smoking, Masturbation As A Habit
Smoking and Masturbation is a bad habit that destroys ones body inside out. While smoking leaves traces of impurities from head to toe and destroy the organs, on the other hand Masturbation destroys ones life physically and spiritually. Hence the body and organs suffers from smoking and ones life is totally destroyed by demons who rob one spiritually of the good things to come leaving people with the option of making poor decisions because whatever is destroyed spiritually is gone physically.
Generally speaking, we all know that any bad habit is not easy to let go and smoking of any form whether cigarettes or marijuana and masturbation are habits that Millions of people deal with in each generation while newborns and unborn will still deal with at some point of their lives in their generation and the reason why is, there is always that time in every man’s life when situations change and perspective as well change and when that time comes things has to change hence the struggle to quit some habits began.
Luckily for our generation, we have so much access to knowledge in everything and these topics are not exempted unlike past generations who knew nothing of what was killing them.
So let’s assume you are reading this piece of mine because you want to change the bad habit of smoking or masturbating that you’ve unconsciously developed overtime due to bad influence, peer-pressure, teenage lifestyle or out of hurt at some point of your life .
Irony Of Smoking
Some people may wonder, how can someone pick up smoking to subside their hurt? Well, that is very possible, as a matter of fact, people pick up drinking and smoking habit for different reasons, is not every woman that smokes that is a prostitute, some were lure in by a bad friend, while some picked it up for fun that later grew into addiction then some, due to emotional hurt from relationships gone bad or family trauma.
That is one reason why, for example, when you meet a young woman and she smokes and drink and you are like how did she get this messed up? You can ask her at some point in a very quiet serene of just you two why she smokes and bang! She’ll hit it!. And you can help her out easily because you wouldn’t be seeing her smoking habit that has turn lifestyle but the problem that prompted that habit and every problem has a solution, it could just be the right words that sends the barking dog away.
How You Can Help
So here is how you can help someone close to you out of smoking, hold and talk with the person in a quiet place of just you two time.
A loud open place will give you a loud open answer, answers like “for fun”, “I just like it” ” why asking please is not as bad as people see smokers” etc but if you really get close to her in a closeup place, you’ll get a lot of information she ain’t capable to spill when you asked her “tell me about yourself” because most times, women are not that open with their hurt and stuff like the men folks and most men strategically tells their woman the problem in their family from the very first time the relationship started to get into the woman’s heart but most women fail to bond with their predicament because they don’t just know how to tell you and bonding means a lot. So don’t be close off with your heart troubles when you feel right with whoever you’re with as that will help them in knowing you more and understanding you and things surrounding you better.
How To Quit Smoking And Masturbation
‘Quitting smoking is as hard as quitting masturbation’ these both bad habit are brothers and they’re heavily influenced by something more powerful than the human power.
Is true that masturbation relieves you just like the normal down stress reliever massage and just like sex, masturbation has a spiritual backing that’s why most people of the dark powers get empowered through sexual relationships that can be use spiritually.
When you have sex with your sexual partner, the Bible makes it clear to us that your two body magnet to become one! That’s why overtime when two lovers magnet, they unknowingly begin to share similarities in conduct, physical appearances and behaviors and that is why you shouldn’t be influenced with the world perspective of having sex with a sex toy, vibrators or animals of any kind because one only becomes one with whatever you having sex with spiritually.
Have sex with a non living thing, you too becomes a non living thing, though you’re are still breathing, you are dead spiritually, is just walking corpse.
For instance, when a person sleeps around with different people the person begin to have different facial appearances making there natural beauty to demean, believe it or not this exchange of hormones is not just the physical aspect but way more spiritual. (I will do a different post on that because its quite deep).
So these bad habits are like every other bad thing that carries an Evi force and everything immoral, bad, evil or that are frowned at, do have a spirit force behind it.
What I’m saying is that Everything both seen and unseen has a specific spirit that controls it, that is the only reason why it’s in existence because nothing without spirit can live or exist and is not just things seen that are living, God created things seen and things unseen for their different purpose.
Some may echo, Pray, pray! Yeah with prayers you can get most things done but not everything, so when battling with these bad habits or impurities (everything unclean, impure is not of God because God is a Clean, Holy God and no impurities can be found in Him or in His children or servant.) that are being controlled spiritually by evil forces, the demons that are on earth just to destroy every good thing, is not just by praying.
With prayers you can stop, pause, go-on-break for sometime but not quitting, you’ll definitely fall back someday which is later labeled as ‘just this once’ to ‘once in a while’ thereby shooting yourself spiritually and causing your physical life to sink-in deep mold and you begin to wonder how?.
Some often ask, “why did I smoke or masturbate again after stopping it for this long?” Yes! You came back to it because the spirit didn’t go away, is still within you and until you cast that spirit away is not leaving you or going anywhere.
And how can you cast such evil spirit away? in short; Through Deliverance, Repentance of sin, Fasting and Prayers.
Steps In Breaking Free
Here are steps that will not only help you Quit but as well break you free :-
- Know how these habits are affecting you spiritually and physically –
This is the most important of all as this will give you the zeal to fight the battle with full force.
One reason we shot ourselves unknowingly is because we don’t know anything about the spiritual realm.
The Bible makes it clear to us that what is made up of a man is a Soul, Spirit and Body, the body is just a lifeless structure without the Spirit and soul, so be more conscious of the spirit before the body, not forgetting that we are fighting against principalities and not wrestling with flesh and blood. So whatever you do ask the Bible and google “what is the spiritual effect of that or this” even if all you read is nonsense, one out all the nonsense will strike you and make sense to you.
To shed more light I will share with you my own personal experience.
When I was a teenager at some point after knowing what a man is, I began to experience some kind of force making love to me while am asleep, most times I wake up to it and stop moving my body and it was a trouble for me then I told my then boyfriend what I was experiencing but he didn’t know anything about it either and he just shabbily said something funny about it and so this thing continues and I still didn’t know what was happening to me until I got older and things got worst after someone introduced masturbation to me and I was so bonding myself with evil powers of darkness unknowingly whenever I masturbate till some how I related with someone in a better place to understanding and luckily for me, I am a dreamer, so with the help of what I see in my dreams it was way easy to understood more of what was happening to me in the spiritual realm that afterwards manifest in real life that prompts me in making poor decisions that only make life situations worse and continuously rob off my ‘Gems’ but I’m grateful now that all that is a bye gone.
So don’t take this lightly as there are more to what you do or what happens to you most times, not everytime.
2. Take your problems, addictions to God with all sincerity and ask Him to help you out then draw closer to Him in prayers, fasting and His word the Bible and apply what you’re studying in your life nonstop.
3. Go for thorough Deliverance in a church not deliverance of a pastor or a self acclaimed person laying hands and casting out, no! Is way more than that. Remembering what Jesus Christ said when he was speaking to his followers that “some demons can’t just be cast out with a rebuke rather is must be done through fasting and prayers.
Then keep the Holy Ghost fire burning in your life so when the demons go off roaming and find no place to enter, they wouldn’t return to where they came out from and even multiply more in you and how can you keep the Holy Ghost Fire burning in you? Is by continuously studying of the word of God, Practicing it, Talking about it and stay prayerful always, when you lay down, sit or walking, pray in the spirit and the spirit of God will never leave you but indulging in any form of impurity will only send the spirit of God away from you and the spirit of impurities will come and take charge then destroying you even more, so be wise and save yourself. And if you endeavor to be clean inside out, I bet, you will be a living testimony like myself and even you see you neighbors smoking whatsoever was your dealbreaker, you can never have that drive to pick it up to just have a drag because the spirit is out of you and out it is indeed!.
Good luck and drop a comment below.
MTN’s “Who wants to a millionaire” anchor Frank Edoho seems to be trending over comparison of his presenting skills with his younger colleagues, Big Brother Naija anchor Ebuka Uchendu, Actor and Naija Sing anchor Joseph Benjamin and Uti Nwachukwu and of course Nigerians are loud-ing it!.
As Frank Edoho is the best host Nigerians have ever enjoy and indeed he warmed every heart with his handsome look like every young man then before his little wife beating scandal started crawling in which resulted to his crashed marriage to OAP Katherine Obiang, a woman who started with him when he was nothing till he got his radio job, according to his then colleagues who recounts how Katherine Obiang was always so caring and being a superwoman for him when the checks had less zeros, but sorry men forget their hungry days when they’re alright!.
Sometimes few months back I stumble on our beloved Frank Edoho at the Lagos Palms shopping mall in Victoria Island with his new wife Sandra and I can imagine why men always be men and women remains women.
Once in a lifetime we all have come to meet that one person we’ll always have in our heart and I had mine and the case of Katherine Obiang seem close but the only difference between our story is that there are no kids and no marriage but we lived a lifetime as short as it was and this experience gave me insight on what could’ve happened.
Men changes! Men change! that is very factual and the Joystick between their legs controls them mostly and the truth is no matter what you do for a man in time past, if you like save his life, that doesn’t guarantee you of his affection and loyalty till the end because when he wants out, he wants out! and did I tell you?
Lol you need to see the Sandra lady, that’ll give you some sense of understanding and I’m not talking about photos but the live show lol… she’s what some people will call ‘overly hot’ sexy tomatoes and if a man like Frank Edoho want to play he gat to stay because of course Frank Edoho was a great catch too with Billions and admiration all over him from left, right and center when the “who wants to be a billionaire” TV Show was on but now…
Here’s what I learnt, every beauty being it in a man or woman fades and fade indeed and one good thing about the human nature is that you cannot control how you age irrespective of skin therapies even surgeries has the most aftermaths.
So seeing Frank Edoho in that Mall that day awake some sense of reasoning in me and the reality of life in general, though I wouldn’t like to spell everything out because I just don’t want to be talking about people these days and yes that’s why my blogging is sleeping now but here’s what I can say, is worthless to work yourself up so much to please your partner when your partner is just themselves, love shouldn’t be that tense though that’s how the world understands what love is but we know true love is simple, free, and firm.
If you are doing everything consciously to appeased someone, I have just one question for you. Is that load of a job not just too much for you? Why so much stress? That will only make you age faster!.
Anyway, that’s what you get when you leave your comfort zone for something that ordinarily isn’t yours. I think if Frank Edoho was with his former wife Katherine Obiang, life will be less stressful for him common he shouldn’t be buying diapers at this time then what will I be buying? Like seriously he would’ve been more relaxed emotionally, physically then channel all of his strength in mentoring his children into becoming a replica of him while enjoying his aging comfortably than trying to still look yuppie for a younger woman who is extremely hot in Lekki where there’s too much money and cool dudes.
The question is, how long will this younger woman stay with our already aging Frank? Is worrisome to think of what and what sometimes.
Those women and men that were taken for granted irrespective of their sacrifices and was disappointed, hated because of one imperfection and couldn’t get a pass and a little patience to understand, maybe for looks, financial competence, family background, people around, youthful exuberance, emotional scars, your time to smile is always, live your life to your maximum ability and refuse to cry about yesterday because you did just fine. You’re not perfect but you’re a gem.! You were a pearl that wasn’t kept safe but even the devil know how awesome God is.
So live your life for your tomorrow not jus for the moment everybody and never let people who truly love you down. True love is incomparable and is not found everywhere and is not everything you admire that is good for you at the end of the day the light will shine and what we truly are will be revealed broadly.
Madmelon can’t be forgotten, his voice echos and his spirit is living, after listening to their returned song then seeing the INYELE visuals, no doubt he was a talent as those
The Powerful Woman
She’s silent and focus
She’s her and never minds
Live the flows & low cuts
She is a fighter
A goal getter
A tough one
A superwoman, a pearl
Her tears are not seen
So her pains are unknown
She keeps pushing
Her sun shines from inside
Her brightness ain’t comparable
She’s a gem, lioness and a tigress
Her thoughts are deep
And her words has grown faint
But she’s heard, seen and understood
A powerful woman is hard to find
Different and very difficult to get
She scares men
Women gets jealous
Since they can’t admire
She believes in herself
Overtime she knows the world
And keep her word and her world
Because she understands
Without knowing she’s
A Powerful Woman
You and i May have some similarities in our troubles and addictions but we’ll not decide how far it affects our life, brains and mind. If only we can, we’ll drink getting drunk.
Sadly, today ain’t the days of just weed, whiskey and cigarettes. Is a day of more. More Weed, species of everything, hence watch how you do.
Growing up in this generation is even harder and not a day passes by without me saying ThankGod I did grew-up in the times of just weed and whiskey so I understand if this your time of adventure.
Education is key, and education is not limited to school only. Read online to know and before doing anything be aware of the negative effects on your wellbeing as this will help you stop it or keep off any glorified substance.
Be Mentally good, how can you be? Stop something you are used to and see what you become then ask yourself what’s good for your wellbeing? And make a decision.