MTN’s “Who wants to a millionaire” anchor Frank Edoho seems to be trending over comparison of his presenting skills with his younger colleagues, Big Brother Naija anchor Ebuka Uchendu, Actor and Naija Sing anchor Joseph Benjamin and Uti Nwachukwu and of course Nigerians are loud-ing it!.
As Frank Edoho is the best host Nigerians have ever enjoy and indeed he warmed every heart with his handsome look like every young man then before his little wife beating scandal started crawling in which resulted to his crashed marriage to OAP Katherine Obiang, a woman who started with him when he was nothing till he got his radio job, according to his then colleagues who recounts how Katherine Obiang was always so caring and being a superwoman for him when the checks had less zeros, but sorry men forget their hungry days when they’re alright!.
Sometimes few months back I stumble on our beloved Frank Edoho at the Lagos Palms shopping mall in Victoria Island with his new wife Sandra and I can imagine why men always be men and women remains women.
Once in a lifetime we all have come to meet that one person we’ll always have in our heart and I had mine and the case of Katherine Obiang seem close but the only difference between our story is that there are no kids and no marriage but we lived a lifetime as short as it was and this experience gave me insight on what could’ve happened.
Men changes! Men change! that is very factual and the Joystick between their legs controls them mostly and the truth is no matter what you do for a man in time past, if you like save his life, that doesn’t guarantee you of his affection and loyalty till the end because when he wants out, he wants out! and did I tell you?
Lol you need to see the Sandra lady, that’ll give you some sense of understanding and I’m not talking about photos but the live show lol… she’s what some people will call ‘overly hot’ sexy tomatoes and if a man like Frank Edoho want to play he gat to stay because of course Frank Edoho was a great catch too with Billions and admiration all over him from left, right and center when the “who wants to be a billionaire” TV Show was on but now…
Here’s what I learnt, every beauty being it in a man or woman fades and fade indeed and one good thing about the human nature is that you cannot control how you age irrespective of skin therapies even surgeries has the most aftermaths.
So seeing Frank Edoho in that Mall that day awake some sense of reasoning in me and the reality of life in general, though I wouldn’t like to spell everything out because I just don’t want to be talking about people these days and yes that’s why my blogging is sleeping now but here’s what I can say, is worthless to work yourself up so much to please your partner when your partner is just themselves, love shouldn’t be that tense though that’s how the world understands what love is but we know true love is simple, free, and firm.
If you are doing everything consciously to appeased someone, I have just one question for you. Is that load of a job not just too much for you? Why so much stress? That will only make you age faster!.
Anyway, that’s what you get when you leave your comfort zone for something that ordinarily isn’t yours. I think if Frank Edoho was with his former wife Katherine Obiang, life will be less stressful for him common he shouldn’t be buying diapers at this time then what will I be buying? Like seriously he would’ve been more relaxed emotionally, physically then channel all of his strength in mentoring his children into becoming a replica of him while enjoying his aging comfortably than trying to still look yuppie for a younger woman who is extremely hot in Lekki where there’s too much money and cool dudes.
The question is, how long will this younger woman stay with our already aging Frank? Is worrisome to think of what and what sometimes.
Those women and men that were taken for granted irrespective of their sacrifices and was disappointed, hated because of one imperfection and couldn’t get a pass and a little patience to understand, maybe for looks, financial competence, family background, people around, youthful exuberance, emotional scars, your time to smile is always, live your life to your maximum ability and refuse to cry about yesterday because you did just fine. You’re not perfect but you’re a gem.! You were a pearl that wasn’t kept safe but even the devil know how awesome God is.
So live your life for your tomorrow not jus for the moment everybody and never let people who truly love you down. True love is incomparable and is not found everywhere and is not everything you admire that is good for you at the end of the day the light will shine and what we truly are will be revealed broadly.