How To Quit Smoking And Masturbation With Ease And Never Go Back !

Smoking, Masturbation As A Habit

Smoking and Masturbation is a bad habit that destroys ones body inside out. While smoking leaves traces of impurities from head to toe and destroy the organs, on the other hand Masturbation destroys ones life physically and spiritually. Hence the body and organs suffers from smoking and ones life is totally destroyed by demons who rob one spiritually of the good things to come leaving people with the option of making poor decisions because whatever is destroyed spiritually is gone physically.

Generally speaking, we all know that any bad habit is not easy to let go and smoking of any form whether cigarettes or marijuana and masturbation are habits that Millions of people deal with in each generation while newborns and unborn will still deal with at some point of their lives in their generation and the reason why is, there is always that time in every man’s life when situations change and perspective as well change and when that time comes things has to change hence the struggle to quit some habits began.

Luckily for our generation, we have so much access to knowledge in everything and these topics are not exempted unlike past generations who knew nothing of what was killing them.

So let’s assume you are reading this piece of mine because you want to change the bad habit of smoking or masturbating that you’ve unconsciously developed overtime due to bad influence, peer-pressure, teenage lifestyle or out of hurt at some point of your life .

Irony Of Smoking

Some people may wonder, how can someone pick up smoking to subside their hurt? Well, that is very possible, as a matter of fact, people pick up drinking and smoking habit for different reasons, is not every woman that smokes that is a prostitute, some were lure in by a bad friend, while some picked it up for fun that later grew into addiction then some, due to emotional hurt from relationships gone bad or family trauma.

That is one reason why, for example, when you meet a young woman and she smokes and drink and you are like how did she get this messed up? You can ask her at some point in a very quiet serene of just you two why she smokes and bang! She’ll hit it!. And you can help her out easily because you wouldn’t be seeing her smoking habit that has turn lifestyle but the problem that prompted that habit and every problem has a solution, it could just be the right words that sends the barking dog away.

How You Can Help

So here is how you can help someone close to you out of smoking, hold and talk with the person in a quiet place of just you two time.

A loud open place will give you a loud open answer, answers like “for fun”, “I just like it” ” why asking please is not as bad as people see smokers” etc but if you really get close to her in a closeup place, you’ll get a lot of information she ain’t capable to spill when you asked her “tell me about yourself” because most times, women are not that open with their hurt and stuff like the men folks and most men strategically tells their woman the problem in their family from the very first time the relationship started to get into the woman’s heart but most women fail to bond with their predicament because they don’t just know how to tell you and bonding means a lot. So don’t be close off with your heart troubles when you feel right with whoever you’re with as that will help them in knowing you more and understanding you and things surrounding you better.

How To Quit Smoking And Masturbation

‘Quitting smoking is as hard as quitting masturbation’ these both bad habit are brothers and they’re heavily influenced by something more powerful than the human power.

Is true that masturbation relieves you just like the normal down stress reliever massage and just like sex, masturbation has a spiritual backing that’s why most people of the dark powers get empowered through sexual relationships that can be use spiritually.

When you have sex with your sexual partner, the Bible makes it clear to us that your two body magnet to become one! That’s why overtime when two lovers magnet, they unknowingly begin to share similarities in conduct, physical appearances and behaviors and that is why you shouldn’t be influenced with the world perspective of having sex with a sex toy, vibrators or animals of any kind because one only becomes one with whatever you having sex with spiritually.

Have sex with a non living thing, you too becomes a non living thing, though you’re are still breathing, you are dead spiritually, is just walking corpse.

For instance, when a person sleeps around with different people the person begin to have different facial appearances making there natural beauty to demean, believe it or not this exchange of hormones is not just the physical aspect but way more spiritual. (I will do a different post on that because its quite deep).

So these bad habits are like every other bad thing that carries an Evi force and everything immoral, bad, evil or that are frowned at, do have a spirit force behind it.

What I’m saying is that Everything both seen and unseen has a specific spirit that controls it, that is the only reason why it’s in existence because nothing without spirit can live or exist and is not just things seen that are living, God created things seen and things unseen for their different purpose.

Some may echo, Pray, pray! Yeah with prayers you can get most things done but not everything, so when battling with these bad habits or impurities (everything unclean, impure is not of God because God is a Clean, Holy God and no impurities can be found in Him or in His children or servant.) that are being controlled spiritually by evil forces, the demons that are on earth just to destroy every good thing, is not just by praying.

With prayers you can stop, pause, go-on-break for sometime but not quitting, you’ll definitely fall back someday which is later labeled as ‘just this once’ to ‘once in a while’ thereby shooting yourself spiritually and causing your physical life to sink-in deep mold and you begin to wonder how?.

Some often ask, “why did I smoke or masturbate again after stopping it for this long?” Yes! You came back to it because the spirit didn’t go away, is still within you and until you cast that spirit away is not leaving you or going anywhere.

And how can you cast such evil spirit away? in short; Through Deliverance, Repentance of sin, Fasting and Prayers.

Steps In Breaking Free

Here are steps that will not only help you Quit but as well break you free :-

  1. Know how these habits are affecting you spiritually and physically –

This is the most important of all as this will give you the zeal to fight the battle with full force.

One reason we shot ourselves unknowingly is because we don’t know anything about the spiritual realm.

The Bible makes it clear to us that what is made up of a man is a Soul, Spirit and Body, the body is just a lifeless structure without the Spirit and soul, so be more conscious of the spirit before the body, not forgetting that we are fighting against principalities and not wrestling with flesh and blood. So whatever you do ask the Bible and google “what is the spiritual effect of that or this” even if all you read is nonsense, one out all the nonsense will strike you and make sense to you.

To shed more light I will share with you my own personal experience.

When I was a teenager at some point after knowing what a man is, I began to experience some kind of force making love to me while am asleep, most times I wake up to it and stop moving my body and it was a trouble for me then I told my then boyfriend what I was experiencing but he didn’t know anything about it either and he just shabbily said something funny about it and so this thing continues and I still didn’t know what was happening to me until I got older and things got worst after someone introduced masturbation to me and I was so bonding myself with evil powers of darkness unknowingly whenever I masturbate till some how I related with someone in a better place to understanding and luckily for me, I am a dreamer, so with the help of what I see in my dreams it was way easy to understood more of what was happening to me in the spiritual realm that afterwards manifest in real life that prompts me in making poor decisions that only make life situations worse and continuously rob off my ‘Gems’ but I’m grateful now that all that is a bye gone.

So don’t take this lightly as there are more to what you do or what happens to you most times, not everytime.

2. Take your problems, addictions to God with all sincerity and ask Him to help you out then draw closer to Him in prayers, fasting and His word the Bible and apply what you’re studying in your life nonstop.

3. Go for thorough Deliverance in a church not deliverance of a pastor or a self acclaimed person laying hands and casting out, no! Is way more than that. Remembering what Jesus Christ said when he was speaking to his followers that “some demons can’t just be cast out with a rebuke rather is must be done through fasting and prayers.

Then keep the Holy Ghost fire burning in your life so when the demons go off roaming and find no place to enter, they wouldn’t return to where they came out from and even multiply more in you and how can you keep the Holy Ghost Fire burning in you? Is by continuously studying of the word of God, Practicing it, Talking about it and stay prayerful always, when you lay down, sit or walking, pray in the spirit and the spirit of God will never leave you but indulging in any form of impurity will only send the spirit of God away from you and the spirit of impurities will come and take charge then destroying you even more, so be wise and save yourself. And if you endeavor to be clean inside out, I bet, you will be a living testimony like myself and even you see you neighbors smoking whatsoever was your dealbreaker, you can never have that drive to pick it up to just have a drag because the spirit is out of you and out it is indeed!.

Good luck and drop a comment below.

Living An Orphan, As An Orphan.

An orphan (from the Greek: ορφανός, orphanós) is someone whose parents are dead or unknown or have abandoned them.

Though most times orphans are regarded as those whose parents are dead but in reality that’s not the case for every orphan out there. Some people are forced to live on their own due to different circumstances even though their parents are still breathing, hence such ones are as well orphans.

Obviously this post is about being an orphan and I want to share tips on what orphans have in common and one thing they both have that never fails them is GOD, yea, LOL they do and that’s all they really have.

Tips on living as an orphan

  • Realize your situation and accept it. Remind yourself you are all you’ve got and look out for your good in every situation.
  • Don’t be shy about your life or predicament – tell your friends, lover who you truly are. When I was growing up I never told anyone I meet about my life and it had a bad toll back on me. So tell your story, your pain to your close friends especially when they’ve tell you theirs, don’t hide anymore.
    Realize your situation and live in full awareness of what it is. This will not only make you have directions in your life but as well will shape you and you wouldn’t make many mistakes that you’ve to regret much later in future.
    Learn to save and spend less because you need money to see life through so SAVE and buy less.
  • Associate only with determine minds who want to be something in future not walk about friends hence they’ll lead you into who you are not and will make you do the wrong things and even make you go to the worst schools. Choice on who to associate with is everything so choose wisely.
  • Do not be overly-Joy, you’ll awaken your sense of reasoning in tears and pain hence sadness will do you more good than laughter. Be alive each moment so you don’t postpone whatever you dealing with because is not avoidable so feel free behind close doors to cry. Tears will bring joy to you and try not to wallow in tears for too long. Try to make yourself happy sometimes.

Drop your comments if the post is helpful or useful.

What Is LinkedIn? And Ways You Abuse LinkedIn And It’s Users

Aside being passionate about entertainment life I am as well very much passionate about the corporate world which is my professional life as nobody living is alive without having his or her own profession irrespective, so.

What is LinkedIn?

LinkedIn is a professional platform to enables you grow you career and business, make connections and customers.

What Makes Different From Facebook?

LinkedIn is about your professional life as such indecency of any kind whether in dressing, Communication, pictures etc is not condole at all on the platform just like the office environment while Facebook is a social media platform not an official ground like LinkedIn so it takes anything from its users.

While there are restrictions on LinkedIn there are no restrictions of any kind on Facebook hence the good, the bad are there and indecency is the order of the place.

Ways LinkedIn Is Abused

Most people seems not really understand the LinkedIn platform as people tend to have a self assumption of what the platform stands for instead of actually understanding why a place or something was birthed since we all know Nothing comes into existence without a purpose so if a creator or an entrepreneur decides to create something is because he foresees something. He had a vision and a Mission, so before venturing into anything it should be thoughtful of you to know why you should be there.

But unfortunately because some people fail to make their research hence the Professional Platform is continuously abuse on a daily basis, why some people might wonder how the LinkedIn platform being abused ? Asking me to tell me about myself on LinkedIn is like seeing a lady at your workplace and your first words are “tell me about yourself”? And just like me she’ll frown at you.

If you don’t really know what LinkedIn is about just take this and stick it into your brain ‘LinkedIn is an official ground’. LinkedIn is not Facebook or Instagram maybe sometimes you might have heard that phrase too which is very factual, so without talking much more, here are things you do that people frown at on the platform that might mostly make you loose your connections that would have land you your big break in your business or in your career.

1. Romance – As a professional place what people discussed as you always see is their professional life, business and careers as such LinkedIn is the wrongest place to want to seek a romantic partner. When you do that, you not only violating the platform but you’re assaulting the person and such act wish trends on Facebook has made many people uncomfortable which has result to them withdrawing their activities from Facebook thereby socializing more only on LinkedIn and you may wonder why?

The answer is simple, people don’t what to be bugged with irrelevant discussion that will not contribute anything positive to them or increase their take home So please don’t make people feel uncomfortable talking to you, only discuss professional things on the platform and if you do, you’ll gain more than you ever thought. Personally I have made friends on LinkedIn and that only happened because it all started in a professional way and still is. Those that deviate from professional discussion are of course ignore. So always know LinkedIn for what it is! It is for people who are professionals on any field to build, seek a job, offer a job, encourage, cheer, share and not otherwise.

2. Personal – Because you find a connection on LinkedIn no matter what your thoughts are about the person maybe because of the person’s overwhelming aura from the display picture should not warrant you sending personal messages like some I have read “where in Lagos are you staying?” “Beautiful lady can I meet you ?” “How can I have you”? Or the icons of LOVE all over the message, Me I wouldn’t answer you whether you’re a woman or a man because I don’t know you, you never interact on the comment section to even get yourself familiarize and if you have please stay professional at all times because nobody on LinkedIn is searching for a Whatever you thinking except improving their personal life.

3. Indecent Content – Whether in words or pictures, never share anything you can’t share in your office. And as a professional place bodies are meant to be covered so you shouldn’t expose your body indecently on LinkedIn no matter how carefree your lifestyle is. The platform is not for nudity as such you should not arouse anyone with you body or facial gestures.

4. Insulting / Rude – Do not be rude to anyone with your comments or message. Always respond professionally and politely just in the same manner you would to your boss in the office. You can drop your opinion about something but know others too are entitled to their own opinion so state yours and respond to comments without insult and rudeness.

So guys I believe this post has done justice to what is LinkedIn and how it should be used appropriately so kindly drop your thoughts below, cha cha!! See y’all around.

Those That Are Interested In Other People’s Lives

 People who are interested in other people’s lives are More interested in other people’s lives than their own lives because there is a desired goal.

They are more concerned about the other person affairs more than the reality of their own lives which makes me wonder ‘why sweat on another man’s business’ like is yours? but tthey’re unchanging because that’s who they are. (Busybody)
Hard times are here for us all so these  days people are utilizing every tool to achieve whatever and one thing those who seek friendship do is want friends for the gains there by maximizing
their opportunities in enlarging their friends network who can be of helpful now or in the nearest future.
Here are some traits of those who are interested in people’s lives?:

These people love and want to hold stronger conversation with you in just a short time of meeting you, intrigued! You may begin to feel comfortable enough to let them into the real deal of your private life. Watch out!.

They seems more interested in your life in a minute of meeting them, they want to know who is in your life without them talking deep of themselves. Note that some of these kind of persons varies and operate on different frequency but same methods in accomplishing their hunger.

They would even give you awesome advice since words are affordable by everyone and free so they can use them, they’ll give free advices without you even asking, they are that amazing! but selfish in disguise.

People who are interested in other people’s lives have an ulterior motives most times, since we all know the slogan “if you want a friend be a friend” so they are “being a friend” they want a close relationship with you using your story as the bond that glued it.

 Most people have use this method in warming themselves into other people’s lives pretending to be friends when is just a facade because when real trouble comes, trust me they can’t stand a second helping you fix then you’ll realize the distance that has always been. Weird, but this is reality! This is life.


As much as people seems interested in your life, they are so inquisitive to know about what’s on your plate but the fact is none truly cares ! they curious.

Continue reading Those That Are Interested In Other People’s Lives

Job 17:8 Ungodly: Terrible Unconcious Self

What’s More “Terrible” Than Terrible ? 

Do you ever wonder why we ain’t compactable with our significant other? Here! Why some may call you rebel even if is otherwise.

I caught sight of this in a plain (simple) English that sends meaning to my soul and I can’t just
agree less and decide to share since sharing is giving now am giving comedy, is Reality, is News. As well change the book you believe in with a better version that it’s writing reflects the existence of the meaning of everything.

The heart evaporates the totality of who we are with you being unable to pull it under control for you are 100% unaware.
For example you like doing the  wronging, righting is taboo to you and right can’t be right nor will good ever look good to you and all these actions are unconsciously deliver from your being, which is the totality of who you are. Is (singing) I bring me!! Everytime in everything you bring you!! unconsciously! 

That is terrible! The unconcoius occourence I call it ! Say hello down below.  #GodlyLiving #RightlyLiving #iscomedyisrealityisnews 


Is no news that sausages are rumor to be produced with all kinds of chemicals, including irritating animals which has slow down the purchase of these products globally and now according to report from New Hampshire food company, they are recalling back over 2,600 pounds of ready-to-eat kielbasa
sausage items that were produced Feb. 7 and 8 2019 from the market because they may contain metal in them and other unhealthy adders that could be dangerous to health.

The U.S. Department of Agriculture has announced the recall of the sausages on Saturday for North Country Smokehouse,of Claremont for quality check.
                                    The recall Sausages includes:

1-pound vacuum-packed packages of “old-fashioned Polish-style kielbasa” with a use-by date of May 9; 12-ounce vacuum-packed packages containing “natural old-fashioned Polish-style kielbasa” with a use-by date of April 23; and 1-pbound vacuum-packed packages containing “Kilchurn Estate Smoked Kielbasa” with a use-by date of May 9.

The products that is subject to recall bear the code “EST. 5390A” inside the USDA mark of inspection.

Information Source: Associate Press

SMH!: Nigerian Abroad Shame Nigeria On Twitter Says “Nigeria Bananas Are As Nigeria Condition”


Is reality, is News 

What is coming out from a Nigerian just because he is fortunate to live abroad SMH 🤦‍♀️ 
So shameful not because he is a Nigerian but because he is human too and now you using a
people predicament to make jokes out of them, your own people OMG!.

Why foreigners laugh at our stupidity everytime we are too selfish that all we care about is ourselves which is keeping us in the exact position we are.

Nigeria 🇳🇬 needs cloth to cover her shame but they all stripped her nake and oppress her, now ignorance is the new normal but I tell you nay, wrath awaits says the Most High. 

🇳🇬 Nigeria =
  Went to school but can’t get employment if you know nobody 
You can’t be anything you work for if you gat no cabal for the gains 
Your family will excommunicate you for not productive oh mine SMH 🤦‍♀️ 
Yea that’s right is comedy, is Reality, is news!.Drop a comment though I know you’re a Nigerian who will sneak here when am probably…SMH 🤦‍♀️ 
         We don’t know God.We are only hearers and grade A pretenders!.