Anorphan(from theGreek:ορφανός,orphanós)is someone whose parents are dead or unknown or have abandoned them.
Though most times orphans are regarded as those whose parents are dead but in reality that’s not the case for every orphan out there. Some people are forced to live on their own due to different circumstances even though their parents are still breathing, hence such ones are as well orphans.
Obviously this post is about being an orphan and I want to share tips on what orphans have in common and one thing they both have that never fails them is GOD, yea, LOL they do and that’s all they really have.
Tips on living as an orphan
Realize your situation and accept it. Remind yourself you are all you’ve got and look out for your good in every situation.
Don’t be shy about your life or predicament – tell your friends, lover who you truly are. When I was growing up I never told anyone I meet about my life and it had a bad toll back on me. So tell your story, your pain to your close friends especially when they’ve tell you theirs, don’t hide anymore.
Realize your situation and live in full awareness of what it is. This will not only make you have directions in your life but as well will shape you and you wouldn’t make many mistakes that you’ve to regret much later in future.
Learn to save and spend less because you need money to see life through so SAVE and buy less.
Associate only with determine minds who want to be something in future not walk about friends hence they’ll lead you into who you are not and will make you do the wrong things and even make you go to the worst schools. Choice on who to associate with is everything so choose wisely.
Do not be overly-Joy, you’ll awaken your sense of reasoning in tears and pain hence sadness will do you more good than laughter. Be alive each moment so you don’t postpone whatever you dealing with because is not avoidable so feel free behind close doors to cry. Tears will bring joy to you and try not to wallow in tears for too long. Try to make yourself happy sometimes.
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THERE ARE …! There are things you don’t need to say! Pity ain’t real in these days and age excerpt you want yourself to be mistreated, abused like trash There are people you don’t need to see & relate with any longer There are.. for your healthy mind and peace There are places you don’t need to go and be for any reason There are things you MUST change to in your present state
There are… yes there are times is harder and tougher for you because you choose to live godly and be a good person among unlike you in this world
It will amaze you when you’re hated because you have good morals andgood ! Which is natural since you don‘t belong with them For the world will be fond of what is its … And the times you went astray were because you were driven insane into the insanity world but you’re now cured & healed Just know there are.. And there will always be ! Till the Kingdom Comes.
Life is life Its not the length that count but The Life you live That is the whole essence You lived and do you stop living? LOL you are my friend and bros Good life to every brother in the hood You are legends Who the world never met But we were priviledge to meet And is our duty to tell the world You lived… Life is hard for everyone We individually chose our solution way I choose mine Hope you will be smart and fast enough to make the decision For you must choose And all the options are not favourable Nothing is Neither the options life present us Just live and do what you like It determines nothing too sure Is the man above that say Love is he and accurate too He knows it all and the muscles can’t even decide nothing
Dear Murphy, Words fail me but somehow I find some in my heart to know Nothing is easy And not even life Is even harder witnessing Hope someday that reunion day
My 2018 Dreams And Hustle ! Writing is one craft that people don’t appreciate, only if they know what work it is, next time you pick or see a book, know someone spent their Time, sleepless nights & Energy to put that out, appreciate it.
Sharing Knowledge is a choice, remember some people keep shut so NOBODY knows what they know. Books don’t write themselves, it is somebody that write any piece of writeup you stare at. Writing is the most difficult part not publishing a book.
Hope when my books finally hit the store, please pity my effort and see them, thank you in advance. In these journey of mine, I now appreciate sleep more than water, God know if we humans don’t sleep, we will DIE.
Is not even the food that keeps us going but sleep and resting of our heads plays 60% of our living. If you notice my blog has been suffering a little because of my eagerness to get my three books out of my bunch of books in my archive to be publish these year by Jah’s grace and is crazy but if I don’t do it now, when will I ? am 30 so you can help me count.
I’ve grown to be these private woman I am, I don’t show my private life on social media neither my moves cause I believe in the end but I just thought of sharing this journey of mine with you reading this to let you know the hustle is not beans so when tomorrow comes, you can tell who ever on my behalf that it was a journey of Hardrock, tears, pain and with no penny so I have to hustle for money to pay bills, fund my continous education then hustle on my dreams as well.
With money everything happens faster and that explains the delay but I believe in the RIGHT TIME too. My books will make you a Reader once again and I hope my effort will not go unnotice.Stay tune #TheEscapadesOfALagosGirl #LetsTalkSex #WorkingNaturalLaws #BuyingAvoidance #IsMarriageForYou
The above five hashtag are books are desire to publish these year but if I can’t get all of them out due to circumstances beyond my control, then three out of them five should be possible but five of them I really desire to finish writing before the end of the year, some are almost 2 years and still uncompleted which most times saddens me because I have to jungle between many things on a daily basis to make ends meet.
While music is still something I have not given up on, that is delaying as well because of lack of funds nor my acting dreams, so you can imagine.
I have these bunch of dreams am chasing and the year 2018 is a year of “work-harder” for me and nothing less.
Kindly stay with me on these journey of on “Becoming Yours Truly“.
Life play on! Life keeps playing whether you like it or not In light and in the dark In sorrow or in pain In joy or in tears There’s always going to be a story A process that makes history Cherish the moments that make memories No matter what, is your story My story is beautiful Realizing it is the Joy I carried With each passing day it even becomes more Afteral is your story that make you As well have the force to break you Either ways is a choice you make Its never going to be how we envisage it Is awe inspiring, difficult, good, agony, yet fulfilling with the ups and downs For life indeed plays on!
I hope you find the piece just like me Put yourself together honey Nobody will carry your burden for you Nobody will know how hurt it aches on you Don’t border hoping on any human So you don’t become disappointed and angry Is only you, you truly have Forget the lies they tell you Soon enough you’ll know better Dreams are called dreams Cause they are not Reality yet But you can make every Dream a Reality With a little More push Endurance, determination and focus The world can come to know you That depends on how you want it You are 100% in charge of your life Let them say, remain true to you always The world can be yours one day And you will lead the stars And the moon will not shine without you Just hold on a little For life plays on
In our darkest moments With Faith we’ll overcome and become When Hope deem off Faith keeps us going When laughter annoys us Faith will Put a smile on our face Hold on to it Keep dreaming with Faith Knowing as life play on Someday, somehow you and I will be just fine At the set time that we don’t even know It hit me so hard That I became forgetful With whatever I signed the dotted line Blind myself with courage Became no more shame of my options I conquered fear that almost killed me How really am I supposed to Keeping Faith as Life play on!.