How To Quit Smoking And Masturbation With Ease And Never Go Back !

Smoking, Masturbation As A Habit

Smoking and Masturbation is a bad habit that destroys ones body inside out. While smoking leaves traces of impurities from head to toe and destroy the organs, on the other hand Masturbation destroys ones life physically and spiritually. Hence the body and organs suffers from smoking and ones life is totally destroyed by demons who rob one spiritually of the good things to come leaving people with the option of making poor decisions because whatever is destroyed spiritually is gone physically.

Generally speaking, we all know that any bad habit is not easy to let go and smoking of any form whether cigarettes or marijuana and masturbation are habits that Millions of people deal with in each generation while newborns and unborn will still deal with at some point of their lives in their generation and the reason why is, there is always that time in every man’s life when situations change and perspective as well change and when that time comes things has to change hence the struggle to quit some habits began.

Luckily for our generation, we have so much access to knowledge in everything and these topics are not exempted unlike past generations who knew nothing of what was killing them.

So let’s assume you are reading this piece of mine because you want to change the bad habit of smoking or masturbating that you’ve unconsciously developed overtime due to bad influence, peer-pressure, teenage lifestyle or out of hurt at some point of your life .

Irony Of Smoking

Some people may wonder, how can someone pick up smoking to subside their hurt? Well, that is very possible, as a matter of fact, people pick up drinking and smoking habit for different reasons, is not every woman that smokes that is a prostitute, some were lure in by a bad friend, while some picked it up for fun that later grew into addiction then some, due to emotional hurt from relationships gone bad or family trauma.

That is one reason why, for example, when you meet a young woman and she smokes and drink and you are like how did she get this messed up? You can ask her at some point in a very quiet serene of just you two why she smokes and bang! She’ll hit it!. And you can help her out easily because you wouldn’t be seeing her smoking habit that has turn lifestyle but the problem that prompted that habit and every problem has a solution, it could just be the right words that sends the barking dog away.

How You Can Help

So here is how you can help someone close to you out of smoking, hold and talk with the person in a quiet place of just you two time.

A loud open place will give you a loud open answer, answers like “for fun”, “I just like it” ” why asking please is not as bad as people see smokers” etc but if you really get close to her in a closeup place, you’ll get a lot of information she ain’t capable to spill when you asked her “tell me about yourself” because most times, women are not that open with their hurt and stuff like the men folks and most men strategically tells their woman the problem in their family from the very first time the relationship started to get into the woman’s heart but most women fail to bond with their predicament because they don’t just know how to tell you and bonding means a lot. So don’t be close off with your heart troubles when you feel right with whoever you’re with as that will help them in knowing you more and understanding you and things surrounding you better.

How To Quit Smoking And Masturbation

‘Quitting smoking is as hard as quitting masturbation’ these both bad habit are brothers and they’re heavily influenced by something more powerful than the human power.

Is true that masturbation relieves you just like the normal down stress reliever massage and just like sex, masturbation has a spiritual backing that’s why most people of the dark powers get empowered through sexual relationships that can be use spiritually.

When you have sex with your sexual partner, the Bible makes it clear to us that your two body magnet to become one! That’s why overtime when two lovers magnet, they unknowingly begin to share similarities in conduct, physical appearances and behaviors and that is why you shouldn’t be influenced with the world perspective of having sex with a sex toy, vibrators or animals of any kind because one only becomes one with whatever you having sex with spiritually.

Have sex with a non living thing, you too becomes a non living thing, though you’re are still breathing, you are dead spiritually, is just walking corpse.

For instance, when a person sleeps around with different people the person begin to have different facial appearances making there natural beauty to demean, believe it or not this exchange of hormones is not just the physical aspect but way more spiritual. (I will do a different post on that because its quite deep).

So these bad habits are like every other bad thing that carries an Evi force and everything immoral, bad, evil or that are frowned at, do have a spirit force behind it.

What I’m saying is that Everything both seen and unseen has a specific spirit that controls it, that is the only reason why it’s in existence because nothing without spirit can live or exist and is not just things seen that are living, God created things seen and things unseen for their different purpose.

Some may echo, Pray, pray! Yeah with prayers you can get most things done but not everything, so when battling with these bad habits or impurities (everything unclean, impure is not of God because God is a Clean, Holy God and no impurities can be found in Him or in His children or servant.) that are being controlled spiritually by evil forces, the demons that are on earth just to destroy every good thing, is not just by praying.

With prayers you can stop, pause, go-on-break for sometime but not quitting, you’ll definitely fall back someday which is later labeled as ‘just this once’ to ‘once in a while’ thereby shooting yourself spiritually and causing your physical life to sink-in deep mold and you begin to wonder how?.

Some often ask, “why did I smoke or masturbate again after stopping it for this long?” Yes! You came back to it because the spirit didn’t go away, is still within you and until you cast that spirit away is not leaving you or going anywhere.

And how can you cast such evil spirit away? in short; Through Deliverance, Repentance of sin, Fasting and Prayers.

Steps In Breaking Free

Here are steps that will not only help you Quit but as well break you free :-

  1. Know how these habits are affecting you spiritually and physically –

This is the most important of all as this will give you the zeal to fight the battle with full force.

One reason we shot ourselves unknowingly is because we don’t know anything about the spiritual realm.

The Bible makes it clear to us that what is made up of a man is a Soul, Spirit and Body, the body is just a lifeless structure without the Spirit and soul, so be more conscious of the spirit before the body, not forgetting that we are fighting against principalities and not wrestling with flesh and blood. So whatever you do ask the Bible and google “what is the spiritual effect of that or this” even if all you read is nonsense, one out all the nonsense will strike you and make sense to you.

To shed more light I will share with you my own personal experience.

When I was a teenager at some point after knowing what a man is, I began to experience some kind of force making love to me while am asleep, most times I wake up to it and stop moving my body and it was a trouble for me then I told my then boyfriend what I was experiencing but he didn’t know anything about it either and he just shabbily said something funny about it and so this thing continues and I still didn’t know what was happening to me until I got older and things got worst after someone introduced masturbation to me and I was so bonding myself with evil powers of darkness unknowingly whenever I masturbate till some how I related with someone in a better place to understanding and luckily for me, I am a dreamer, so with the help of what I see in my dreams it was way easy to understood more of what was happening to me in the spiritual realm that afterwards manifest in real life that prompts me in making poor decisions that only make life situations worse and continuously rob off my ‘Gems’ but I’m grateful now that all that is a bye gone.

So don’t take this lightly as there are more to what you do or what happens to you most times, not everytime.

2. Take your problems, addictions to God with all sincerity and ask Him to help you out then draw closer to Him in prayers, fasting and His word the Bible and apply what you’re studying in your life nonstop.

3. Go for thorough Deliverance in a church not deliverance of a pastor or a self acclaimed person laying hands and casting out, no! Is way more than that. Remembering what Jesus Christ said when he was speaking to his followers that “some demons can’t just be cast out with a rebuke rather is must be done through fasting and prayers.

Then keep the Holy Ghost fire burning in your life so when the demons go off roaming and find no place to enter, they wouldn’t return to where they came out from and even multiply more in you and how can you keep the Holy Ghost Fire burning in you? Is by continuously studying of the word of God, Practicing it, Talking about it and stay prayerful always, when you lay down, sit or walking, pray in the spirit and the spirit of God will never leave you but indulging in any form of impurity will only send the spirit of God away from you and the spirit of impurities will come and take charge then destroying you even more, so be wise and save yourself. And if you endeavor to be clean inside out, I bet, you will be a living testimony like myself and even you see you neighbors smoking whatsoever was your dealbreaker, you can never have that drive to pick it up to just have a drag because the spirit is out of you and out it is indeed!.

Good luck and drop a comment below.

Food: Getting The Best From Homemade Egusi Soup


Photo:  Homemade Egusi Soup by Timeless Da Empress 

Having the best and enjoying your Egusi soup depends on your ingredients and reason why ingredients are important in our foods is to ascertain healthy living for our health should be paramount in that view I only feeds my body with what’s good for it which is very necessary and in making of Egusi Soup just like every other food, the components, the method you imply gives you the taste finale no magic about that. 

Some people assume make believe tales in food preparation but the fact remains

food making is simply garbage in garbage out. 
You can’t have what you didn’t throw in self explaining is you having no adequate salt in it because you didn’t put in adequately.

Making your Egusi Soup is not necessarily if you fry it or cook it as people differs same as there cooking skills, for me my cooking depends on how I feel in a moment and what I want at the moment. 

There times where I just want my Melon cooked so I don’t get to bleach the oil or the Melon itself while there are times where I want everything fried from the Melon to the fish to the meat and the only thing not fried then will the vegetables which are added 60 seconds to done and what makes Egusi Soup thick for me is my favorite Bitterleaf and little Spinach locally known in Nigeria as the Ugu leaf as these two veggies  combinations brings the goodness of green life into the Soup and it’s taste is simply delicious.

Mostly when the bitterleaf is left bitter (for the bitter taste lovers like me lol) it leaves your mouth sweetly sweetened after the meal.

And talking ingredients for this special African Delicacy,  You’ll  need a touch of

these top four alongside the grinded Melon which are Crayfish, it can be grinded alongside the Melon with pepper or decides to wash it in without blending. Titus Fish, should be cut to desired sizes. Meat or fried meatballs either way as you like it then Kpomo which can as well be sliced to desired size and Yeah is all set!.

The Egusi soup is one of Nigerians favorite soup and is affordable for everyone, with just small money you have made yourself or your family this delicious soup that can be enjoyed with Eba which is garri, Akpu, Pounded Yam, Semo, etc.  

So try it out if you’ve been doing it differently from my recommend and you can drop you comments below to share how you enjoy yours!. Yeah thank you.


Those That Are Interested In Other People’s Lives

 People who are interested in other people’s lives are More interested in other people’s lives than their own lives because there is a desired goal.

They are more concerned about the other person affairs more than the reality of their own lives which makes me wonder ‘why sweat on another man’s business’ like is yours? but tthey’re unchanging because that’s who they are. (Busybody)
Hard times are here for us all so these  days people are utilizing every tool to achieve whatever and one thing those who seek friendship do is want friends for the gains there by maximizing
their opportunities in enlarging their friends network who can be of helpful now or in the nearest future.
Here are some traits of those who are interested in people’s lives?:

These people love and want to hold stronger conversation with you in just a short time of meeting you, intrigued! You may begin to feel comfortable enough to let them into the real deal of your private life. Watch out!.

They seems more interested in your life in a minute of meeting them, they want to know who is in your life without them talking deep of themselves. Note that some of these kind of persons varies and operate on different frequency but same methods in accomplishing their hunger.

They would even give you awesome advice since words are affordable by everyone and free so they can use them, they’ll give free advices without you even asking, they are that amazing! but selfish in disguise.

People who are interested in other people’s lives have an ulterior motives most times, since we all know the slogan “if you want a friend be a friend” so they are “being a friend” they want a close relationship with you using your story as the bond that glued it.

 Most people have use this method in warming themselves into other people’s lives pretending to be friends when is just a facade because when real trouble comes, trust me they can’t stand a second helping you fix then you’ll realize the distance that has always been. Weird, but this is reality! This is life.


As much as people seems interested in your life, they are so inquisitive to know about what’s on your plate but the fact is none truly cares ! they curious.

Continue reading Those That Are Interested In Other People’s Lives

Job 17:8 Ungodly: Terrible Unconcious Self

What’s More “Terrible” Than Terrible ? 

Do you ever wonder why we ain’t compactable with our significant other? Here! Why some may call you rebel even if is otherwise.

I caught sight of this in a plain (simple) English that sends meaning to my soul and I can’t just
agree less and decide to share since sharing is giving now am giving comedy, is Reality, is News. As well change the book you believe in with a better version that it’s writing reflects the existence of the meaning of everything.

The heart evaporates the totality of who we are with you being unable to pull it under control for you are 100% unaware.
For example you like doing the  wronging, righting is taboo to you and right can’t be right nor will good ever look good to you and all these actions are unconsciously deliver from your being, which is the totality of who you are. Is (singing) I bring me!! Everytime in everything you bring you!! unconsciously! 

That is terrible! The unconcoius occourence I call it ! Say hello down below.  #GodlyLiving #RightlyLiving #iscomedyisrealityisnews 


Is no news that sausages are rumor to be produced with all kinds of chemicals, including irritating animals which has slow down the purchase of these products globally and now according to report from New Hampshire food company, they are recalling back over 2,600 pounds of ready-to-eat kielbasa
sausage items that were produced Feb. 7 and 8 2019 from the market because they may contain metal in them and other unhealthy adders that could be dangerous to health.

The U.S. Department of Agriculture has announced the recall of the sausages on Saturday for North Country Smokehouse,of Claremont for quality check.
                                    The recall Sausages includes:

1-pound vacuum-packed packages of “old-fashioned Polish-style kielbasa” with a use-by date of May 9; 12-ounce vacuum-packed packages containing “natural old-fashioned Polish-style kielbasa” with a use-by date of April 23; and 1-pbound vacuum-packed packages containing “Kilchurn Estate Smoked Kielbasa” with a use-by date of May 9.

The products that is subject to recall bear the code “EST. 5390A” inside the USDA mark of inspection.

Information Source: Associate Press

OMG! China Bath Selves With Pepper, LOL

Oh yea!! People of China competed in a hot pepper-eating competition in Yichun & is ladies along side guys differ zoning themselves by sex doing this in Jiangxi province on sunday according to report as they all cheerfully chew in and bath with as many chili peppers as possible as a competition, funny and nice.

Can you beat ? Hmmm I guess lol 😆.

China to the world!.

Nigerians Should Stop Artificial Seasoning As Its Killing Them – Expert Warns

Hey Nigerians, is time to go local, back to our roots with our old modern of seasoning foods for deriving naturally tasty foods and its for our own good, its not about boasting our dying economy these time but its about boasting our health from diseases, death and living with ill health.

New report has surface, claiming that the use of artificial seasonings in our foods can cause cardiovascular diseases.
Basil Okeahialam, a cardiologist at the University of Jos, gave this warning in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Aba Today, Tuesday September 19, 2017.

According to him, artificial or factory-made seasonings, which have high amounts of salt or salt-related chemicals are not as healthy as traditional condiments in preparing foods.

Mr. Okeahialam said that an African has the natural tendency to retain salt in his or her body, hence the need to reduce salt in-take and consumption of foods high in salt and related chemicals.

“We did a paper when we bought condiments from the market and tried to test for the sodium content and we found out that the popular condiments women like to use in preparing food to be tasty were very high in sodium.

“The African has the tendency to retain sodium in the body system and so if we take a lot of sodium in our diet, we retain most of it and when that happens, we expand our blood volume, which results in High Blood Pressure.

“So if there is anybody, who should cut down his or her salt in-take, it is an African because that is a key driver of hypertension.

“But we need to also be careful of fast food, you are in the city and there is no time to cook natural food, you buy shelved food prepared with a lot of salt so as to prolong the shelf-life.

“If we take in much salt, we increase our tendency to suffer cardiovascular disease but if we can reduce salt up to 50 per cent, we can be sure of reducing hypertension prevalence by as much as that,” he said.

He called on Nigerians to run away from some social perceptions, which were leading them into dangerous lifestyles, noting that tasty foods are not really made so by seasonings.(Naturally tasty should be the goal not artificial, guys, please.)

He said that when the top-hill-dwelling Koma people in Adamawa were discovered in 1986, research showed that none of them had a trace of high blood pressure.

The professor attributed the finding to the Koma people’s non use of salt in their food on a daily basis and stressed that even while using salt, it should continually reduce as the users advance in age.

Mr. Okeahialam said that cardiovascular diseases as hypertension affects close to 30 to 40 per cent of adult Nigerians but regretted that most victims of hypertension were hardly aware that they had it.

He said that the number of men, women, adolescents and children with HBP and are at risk of cardiovascular diseases was so high that cardiovascular diseases in Nigeria had become a national emergency.

The professor, therefore, called for more advocacy, greater government funding of health care and participation in policy implementation, more commitment from medical personnel and citizens’ change in lifestyles to fight it.